Our perspectives about ourselves, our spouse, and our marriage affects our responses. We can change our thinking as we understand how we were created to uni...
Study the Scriptures with us to better understand God's design for marriage.
What would it take to grow closer in your marriage? It's important to know where you are and where you want to grow, then come up with a plan to get there. ...
How can we get the attention of our spouse? Let's look at what God's word shows are "winning" ways to engage.
To look at things the way God looks at things requires changing our perspectives. Could it be there are ways we think that are causing trouble in the marria...
If it's not working, why keep doing it? Did you know your negativity is tearing apart your marriage? Learn some tools used in successful marriages, and cha...
For the first year of marriage, husbands are instructed to cheer up = please their wives. What habits would couples continue in if this was expected of newl...
If you're clashing instead of blending, you may want to back off and check out your foundation. For two to become one, we first must accept and appreciate t...
Is your biggest problem that you aren't recognizing and embracing that which is male and that which is female in your relationship? What if you're pushing a...
As couples work individually to improve their walk with God, we see the marriage begin to turn. This is the single most powerful positive impact on the marr...
When we present our issue well, we increase the likelihood of being heard. Our spouse isn't perfect, but when we reduce his hurdles, he doesn't have to weed...
There is power in marital intimacy missed when we choose to push away our spouse. When our spouse presents yet another area for blending, how do we respond?...
Are you trying to become on in marriage while thinking and acting like a single person? To the extent we hold onto our "singleness," we hinder our "oneness....
He and she have needs that should only be met in the marriage. When someone gives to us everything, we have an obligation before God to do the right thing a...
Is it a priority to you to do what pleases your spouse? To what extent do you go to find out what is pleasing? What is the amount of effort expended to ble...
In 1 Peter 3:8, we're told how to treat fellow believers. What does it look like to treat our spouse at least as well?
Do you cringe when you think of resolving an issue with your spouse? What's behind the cringing? Let's look at concerns some spouses have to hurdle to go t...
If you're struggling to work through issues, check out your underlying perspectives. These can sit unrecognized in the background and affect how we interpre...
If you are more verbal to pursue addressing issues, check out this video where we discuss the problems you might encounter. If you are the spouse of someone...
Do you withdraw from conflict? Are you married to someone who does? Let's talk about what's happening when someone withdraws and some ways to work on it.
When we clash, we miss heart-messages. To really hear, set aside yourself and realize your spouse is revealing self - not you. When we only see ourselves a...
Have you ever attempted to share a heart message only to be pushed aside as the speaker while your spouse shares something "more important"? Have you done t...
The next time you want to share something from your heart with your spouse, try sticking to the rules to see if you're more likely to help your spouse receiv...
Many couples do not know how to talk about the deeper issues of the heart to take their marriages to a deeper level. In this video, we discuss how to work through those things that are hindering growth and damaging trust in relationships.
How do you let your spouse know what you need in the marriage? Couples need to be aware of the different needs of the husband and wife in the deepest of relationships to facilitate marital growth. Let's talk about his and her core needs and a good way to make those needs known.
What's your tendency when resolving marital issues? Are you more aggressive or avoiding when you interact with your spouse?
In this video, we discuss some key Scriptures about marriage that we share with married couples who are struggling in their relationships.
In this video, we continue discussing Scriptures about marriage. We cover 1 Peter 3 about how a wife's respectful influence wins her husband without words and by behavior and Ephesians 5 about how marriage is a model of the Christ-Church relationship and how the man can present his wife gloriously to himself by the way he ministers to her via his words.
Let's find out more together about how we, as a couple, can interact concerning marital issues in a way to increase the likelihood that we will hear and be h...
